A little pause. A promise in color. | GiftshopByHelen
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The unity sand ceremony, made personal

A little pause.
A promise in color.

In a day full of words, do something together.
Pour your two colors into one tree-of-life frame.

Free ceremony script + sand color guide, plus 10% off your set

What to say during the pour, which color pairs stay crisp, and a 10% code for your set. Sent to your inbox in a few minutes; your design proof comes free with every order.

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35 cm complete set · $179.90 · Recommended
Free U.S. standard shipping on this set.

Bride and groom pouring orange and peach sand into a heart tree-of-life frame
Two colors. One shared moment.

Your ceremony cue card

About
one minute.
All yours.

  1. 01Each choose a color.
  2. 02Pour them together.
  3. 03Keep what you made.

See it up close

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The pour: two colors, one frame, about a minute
The pour: two colors, one frame, about a minute
Poured together at the ceremony table
Poured together at the ceremony table
Beach wedding? Sand does not blow out like a candle
Beach wedding? Sand does not blow out like a candle
Rustic barn, garden or ballroom: it fits the day
Rustic barn, garden or ballroom: it fits the day
Heart tree, your names on the trunk
Heart tree, your names on the trunk
On the table with your two bottles of sand
On the table with your two bottles of sand
Your two colors, sealed for good
Your two colors, sealed for good
After the wedding: it hangs at home
After the wedding: it hangs at home
What you choose: frame color, background, sand colors, names and date
What you choose: frame color, background, sand colors, names and date
In the box: frame, wooden stand, 2 funnels, 2 covers, 2 bottles of sand
In the box: frame, wooden stand, 2 funnels, 2 covers, 2 bottles of sand
4 sizes, and how much sand each one holds
4 sizes, and how much sand each one holds
24 sand colors to match your wedding
24 sand colors to match your wedding
10 fonts for your names
10 fonts for your names
4.8★ average across 6,900+ reviews of our Etsy shop
Free design proof by email within 24 hours

First, make room for your moment

Put it on
your wedding plan.

Pick your wedding date to plan time for your design proof, making, and shipping.

Add a date for your standard and UPS order-by dates.

Planning guide, not an arrival guarantee. Choose your shipping service at checkout.

Your ceremony studio

Make the moment
look like you.

Choose a frame, add your names, and bring your two colors together. Your emailed proof confirms every detail.

01Your frame & set

Shape
Size · measured across the frame

Every set includes a wooden display stand, two pouring funnels + covers.

02The two of you

Your names and date are cut into the wood on a small plaque on the trunk.

24 sand colors. The dots below your names show your pairing.

Selected first sand color sample
Selected second sand color sample
Font, frame color & background
Selected lettering font sample

For “Another color,” describe your choice in Special Request.

Your choices, all together

Ready for your design proof.

Your set
U.S. standard shipping
Estimate before tax

Shipping selected here is a planning estimate. Confirm the service and any taxes at checkout.

Order first. Free design proof by email within 24 hours. Nothing is cut until you approve.

The practical part, taken care of

A small ritual.
A complete little kit.

Empty heart frame, stand, sand bottles and pouring accessories on a garden table
Before the pour · heart set shown.
  • Real wood + clear acrylicYour tree-of-life frame, personalized with names and date.
  • A wooden display standFor the ceremony table, then a spot at home.
  • Two pouring funnels + coversFor your pour and for closing the frame afterward.
  • Two bottles of sand in the complete setYour two selected colors.

Choose frame only if you’re bringing your own sand.

The proof makes it personal

“They sent a digital mockup proof, made adjustments to the font, got another proof… Came wrapped soooo well and with extra screws/pieces just in case.”
— Lisa, Etsy review

Picture the pour

No flame to
keep alight.

A unity candle can blow out outdoors; sand can’t. Once poured, the grains can never be separated. Set your frame on a steady ceremony table.

The heart frame, in motion.
Pouring inspiration. This clip shows different designs; your set is the tree of life.

Know what happens next.

Order your set. Check your design proof by email. Then we make the piece you approved.

Within 24 hours

Free design proof by email. Nothing is cut until you approve.

After your approval

Handmade in 4–6 business days. U.S. standard shipping takes 8–15 business days; UPS fast takes 3–5 business days.

A few words for your minute

Leave the wording
to us.

A free ceremony script by email. Choose short, romantic, or with children, ready to share with your officiant.

Demo: preview your request. No email is sent.

Good to know

Personal.
With a plan.

A real person at the other end of your proof email.

support@giftshopbyhelen.com
Do we approve it before you make it?

Free design proof by email within 24 hours of ordering. Nothing is cut until you approve. Handmade in 4–6 business days after approval.

How long is shipping?

U.S. standard shipping: 8–15 business days, $9.95, FREE on orders over $75. UPS fast: 3–5 business days, $69. Business days exclude weekends and public holidays.

Can we change or cancel?

Changes/cancel within 24 h of ordering. Email support@giftshopbyhelen.com.

What if it arrives damaged?

Email a photo within 7 days of delivery to support@giftshopbyhelen.com for a remake or refund.

Your names go here