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★★★★★ 4.8★ · 6,900+ Etsy reviews The keepsake for your unity sand ceremony

Two colors that never come apart.

The handcrafted tree-of-life keepsake for your unity sand ceremony — for your wedding, a vow renewal, or an anniversary. Two colors poured into one and sealed in real wood and acrylic, personalized with your names and date to keep for years to come.

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Handmade to order 24 sand colors to mix Secure checkout
Personalized tree-of-life unity sand ceremony keepsake Poured on the day — kept for life
No typos on your big dayYou approve a proof of your exact names & date before we make a thing.
Show up with just the boxFrame, stand, sand, funnels & covers — the whole ceremony's inside.
A keepsake, not a propReal wood & acrylic, not plastic — with a 7-day breakage guarantee.
In your hands in timeHandmade in 4–6 days, shipped tracked. Order ~4 weeks ahead to be safe.
real couples, real ceremonies

Poured, kept & reviewed by real Etsy buyers

A few of the couples who ordered theirs. The photos and words are their own, straight from our Etsy reviews.

★★★★★ 4.8 average across 6,900+ Etsy reviews
Customer photo: natural-wood heart tree-of-life keepsake on its stand
★★★★★

“Came exactly like how I wanted, the seller was wonderful and accommodating!”

Kiarie · verified Etsy review
Customer photo: heart keepsake displayed with its two sand bottles
★★★★★

“The piece is lovely and feels really solid — and fast shipping.”

Francesco · verified Etsy review · Italy (translated)
why sand, not a candle

A flame goes out. Your sand doesn't.

Light a unity candle and, at the end of the night, you blow it out — by your first anniversary it's a stub in a drawer. Pour your sand instead and the two colors settle into one pattern, as unrepeatable as the marriage it marks, sealed under acrylic the moment you're done. No flame to melt or blow out. Kept indoors, dry and out of direct sun, it holds the exact pattern the two of you poured — for years to come.

"The flame goes out. The sand stays."

The finished tree-of-life keepsake displayed at home
wedding or anniversary

Made for your wedding — just as right for your anniversary.

Same keepsake, same ritual — whether you're saying "I do" for the first time or renewing the promise years later. Poured once, sealed for good.

On your wedding day

The unity pour

You each pour a color through the funnels. The two sands fold into one pattern — impossible to separate, impossible to repeat — then seal under acrylic the moment you're done, engraved with your names and date.

Anniversary or vow renewal

The same vow, years on

Mark 5, 10, or 25 years — or renew your vows — with a keepsake made for that milestone, its date engraved in the wood. The ceremony that meant everything, poured all over again.

Buying for a couple? It's the wedding or anniversary gift people actually keep. Add their names & date — we'll send the proof to approve before it's made.

Design yours in a minute

Choose your shape, then make it yours.

Same tree of life, same craftsmanship — the Heart for classic romance, the Circle for unity without end. Pick one, personalize it, and we'll send a free proof before anything is made.

Personalized tree-of-life unity sand ceremony keepsake Heart · Tree of Life

The Heart Tree — soft romantic curves around the tree of life, the classic symbol of the day.

Make it yours

Fill in the details below — you'll get a free design proof to check before we make it.

Your set — 30 cm tree-of-life frame + wooden display stand + 2 funnels + covers + 2 sand bottles in your colors (~450 g / 0.9 lb total)

What's in the box
  • Frame + stand: your tree-of-life frame and a wooden display stand.
  • Funnels & covers: 2 pouring funnels — one for each of you — plus covers to seal the openings once you’ve poured.
  • With sand: 2 sand bottles in the colors you pick — about 350 g (25 cm), 450 g (30 cm), 650 g (35 cm) or 800 g (40 cm) of sand in total. Prefer to use sand you already have? Choose “Frame only.”
  • “Frame only”: the frame, stand, funnels and covers — everything except the 2 sand bottles.
  • Display: stands upright on its wooden stand as a tabletop keepsake.
See product photos ↑ See size & sand guide ↓
Tip the makers?Optional

Every piece is cut, engraved and tied by hand. A tip goes straight to the small team who make yours.

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rooted in meaning

Why a tree, for your wedding?

It's one of the oldest symbols of two lives joining — and of a love that keeps growing. That's why it sits at the heart of the design, where every root, branch and season mirrors the marriage you're beginning:

Roots — two families, one base

The trunk rises from a single point: the day two lives, and everyone who shaped them, became one.

Branches — growth every year

The tree reaches a little wider each season — the way a marriage keeps growing from the roots you set down on day one.

Endurance — through every season

Deep roots and sheltering branches: the oldest symbol there is for a love built to last.

everything's in the box

Nothing to source before the aisle.

Every set is complete and made to order — frame, wooden stand, 2 funnels & covers (plus your sand & bottles when you add them). Full size & package details are in each design's photos above.

Want another shape or theme? See all sand ceremony designs
the ceremony

Four moments you'll remember forever

However you say it — a wedding, a vow renewal, an anniversary — the ritual is the same.

Sand ceremony frame on its wooden stand01

Stand it between you

Set the frame on its stand where you'll exchange vows — the tree of life facing your guests.

Couple pouring colored sand together02

Pour together

Each of you pours a color through the funnel as your vows are read aloud.

Two sand colors blending over the tree03

Watch them blend

Two colors layer over the tree into one pattern — a design only the two of you could make.

Finished keepsake displayed at home04

Keep it forever

Cap the covers to seal it, carry it home, and keep your day on show for years to come.

from your order to your day

Made to order, approved by you.

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You order & personalize

Choose your design and add your names, date, colors & font.

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We send a proof

Every order gets a design proof to review — tweak it until it's perfect.

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We craft it

We start once you approve your proof — or after 48 hours if we don't hear back, so your date stays safe. Handmade in 4–6 business days.

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It ships to you

Tracked to your door, carefully packed to arrive safe for your day.

Fast shipping · 3–5 business days Standard U.S. · free over $70 · 10–15 business days Worldwide · 20–30 days

Planning a wedding? We recommend ordering about 4 weeks ahead to be safe — a little sooner for worldwide. Every keepsake is covered by a 7-day breakage guarantee from delivery: if it arrives damaged, we replace it.

questions, answered

Everything you might be wondering

What if our names or date come out wrong?
They won't slip through. Before anything is cut or engraved, we email you a design proof with your exact names, date, font and colors to check. If we don't hear back within 48 hours we go ahead so your date stays safe — so just reply if anything needs changing and we'll fix it first.
Will it arrive before our wedding?
We handcraft each piece in 4–6 business days once your proof is approved — or after 48 hours if we don't hear back — then ship it: fast 3–5 days, standard U.S. 10–15 days (free over $70), or worldwide 20–30 days. We recommend ordering about 4 weeks ahead. Tell us your date and we'll flag any timing risk before you pay.
Can we use it for an anniversary or vow renewal — or as a gift?
Yes — that's half the point. Pour it at your wedding, or use it to mark an anniversary or a vow renewal. It also makes one of the most meaningful gifts you can give a couple. Just add their names and date, and we'll send you the proof to approve.
What comes in the kit?
Everything the ceremony needs: your personalized tree-of-life frame, a wooden display stand, 2 pouring funnels with covers to seal it after you pour, and — on with-sand sets — two bottles of sand in your chosen colors. Choose “Frame only” if you’d rather use sand you already have.
Is it fragile? Will it really last?
It's made from real wood and clear acrylic, and sealed after you pour. Kept indoors, dry and out of direct sunlight, it's designed for long-term display. Every order is covered by a 7-day breakage guarantee — if it arrives damaged, we replace it.
How many colors can we choose?
Around 24 sand colors, plus your frame and background color and one of 10 fonts. Each kit includes two full bottles — plenty for your ceremony, with sand to spare so you can add a layer on future anniversaries.
before you go

Not sure how a unity sand ceremony works?

Get our free Unity Ceremony Script & Vows Guide — the words to say, who pours when, and how to make the ritual feel unmistakably yours. Works just as beautifully for a wedding as for an anniversary or vow renewal.

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start with your names

See it with your names on it — before you commit to anything.

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